Curiosity about other people’s lives seems almost wired into human nature. It’s not that everyone does it, but more often than not, people can’t help but stick their noses into matters that don’t concern them. Newlyweds, for instance, are frequently asked when they plan to have a baby. Once they become parents, the questions shift to whether a second child is on the way, as if their private lives were public property.
For Charli Worgan and her husband Cullen, who both live with different forms of dwarfism, this invasive curiosity has been especially pronounced. The couple has faced a whirlwind of opinions and criticism simply for choosing to become parents. It seems absurd, yet this scrutiny has been a constant presence in their lives.
When Charli gave birth to their first daughter, she shared the news with friends and followers on Instagram. She imagined it as a joyful announcement, a way to celebrate the arrival of their little one. She didn’t anticipate the backlash that would come—not because of what she shared, but because of who she was and the choices she had made. People questioned why a couple with dwarfism would have children at all, as if their desire to build a family were something to be judged.
With each pregnancy, the stakes were high. Genetic considerations loomed large. Both daughters, Tully and Tilba, were born with dwarfism, and doctors explained that future children could inherit either form, both forms (which could be fatal), or even have average height. Each pregnancy required meticulous planning, genetic testing, and emotional resilience.
When Charli became pregnant with their third child, the process was far from easy. She openly shared her experiences on social media, detailing the procedures she underwent, including Chorionic Villus Sampling—a test that involves inserting a needle through the abdomen to collect a sample of the placenta. The procedure carried a 2% risk of miscarriage, but it was necessary to determine the genetic makeup of her unborn baby. “While most people at twelve weeks are celebrating and announcing their pregnancy, I was lining up for CVS,” she wrote. The weight of each choice was immense: if their child inherited both forms of dwarfism, the pregnancy would have to be terminated. Every decision was measured, every step taken with caution and care.
Yet amidst all this, there was hope. The Worgans wanted a family, and they approached each pregnancy with thoughtfulness and love. Their prayers and careful planning were rewarded when baby Rip arrived in February, healthy and thriving alongside his older sisters. The joy and relief of holding their third child were immeasurable.
Charli reflected on the criticism they had endured. Many questioned their decision to bring children into the world given the genetic odds, but she emphasized that every choice was made with love and responsibility. “Sharing this tiny piece of our journey shows that bringing a child into this world, especially with these odds, is never a simple decision. It’s all about kindness,” she wrote. Her words highlighted a fundamental truth: parenting is not about meeting others’ expectations, but about love, care, and intention.
Despite the challenges and exhaustion, Charli expressed gratitude. “I’m tired, but I feel ever so grateful and lucky. There is no ‘correct’ way to do motherhood, and I’m sure there’s no ‘wrong’ way either,” she shared. Her honesty and warmth resonated with many, showing that vulnerability and authenticity can coexist with strength.
Now, as a family of five, Charli and Cullen are thriving. They’ve beaten the odds, navigated the scrutiny, and built a household filled with love, laughter, and resilience. Their story is not only a testament to their courage but also a reminder that family, in all its forms, is built on dedication and heart, not conformity.
Through every hurdle, every sleepless night, and every critical comment from the outside world, the Worgans have remained steadfast in their love for each other and their children. And as they embrace their life together, it is clear that happiness, perseverance, and kindness are the true measures of a family’s strength.
